Tuesday, February 01, 2005
I was reading the paper and found this good advice... I hope it will motivate those in bad relationships to do do sumthin about their lives. peace ^.^"Why not ditch self-controller?"
(Toronto Star, Tues, Feb 1, 2005, p. E4)
Q: I've been with my bf for 2 yrs, and now we always fight. I feel he's cheating on me with girls from work; he always talks about them knowing it bugs me. I can't even go for a coffee without him getting angry, but he can go to bars and parties with girls from work, without me. I love him but I didn't think love would hurt like this. I feel I need to get away, I'm scared of what I'm losing but I also know I'll have my life back, which I haven't had in so long.
A: Love hurts when someone's hurting u. You "lose" your life when you let someone else control it. Those are 2 mantras you need to keep saying to yourself as u pack your bags. you're living with a controller and, worse, one who's selfish. Whatever it is u think u love isn't there when he puts limits on u, when he leaves u to go alone to go out and do what he wants. If he says it won't happen again, tell him u can only reconsider when he's ready fto have an equal relationship, in which both of u understand the difference btw having friends and playing around.
(Maw, ini nih yang gw bayangin buat masa depan lo kalo lo end up ama si A... so thank God u got away before it got worse!)
si Monyet @ 2/01/2005 01:04:00 PM
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